One night stand turned into 5 years of falling in love with him.There's something there on both ends.Pursue?

Both not new to serious relationships (in fact he helped me get through 2 abusive relationships), both been burned in the past, enjoy the same things, have the same hopes, dreams, ect. Talked about how when we turn 40 we will marry if we are not by then. We are almost 23 now. Birthdays are 7 days apart, even born in the same hospital. LOL. What can I say? There's no doubt I'm in love and I don't wanna be without him. He's told me the same things, but we just have not taken it out of the level we have been in for quite some time (out of fear of getting hurt), but deep down we both know neither one of us would hurt each other.......anyhow...just looking for some UPLIFTING motivation. He's enough, but I like to hear some opinions. We are steady in our careers...he's in the union as a pipeliner, and I am soon to be a registered nurse. :)One night stand turned into 5 years of falling in love with him.There's something there on both ends.Pursue?you summed it up on ''deep down we both know neither one of us would hurt each other''



If either of you had niggling doubts about how secure you felt with each other - then there would be reason to worry - or if you truly felt you or your heart were not 100% safe with him



But if you both feel and know that both your hearts are truly safe with each other - if you share everything and have nothing to hide and feel fully secure.....then what are you waiting for you silly billys!! lol



It'll be fine....I know the foundation and the start of things seems 'wrong' but thats the way you did it to protect yourselves - just make sure he's really ready to commmit one day ( not not at all! ) and always be honest with each other!